Couple Deep Dive- Valentine’s Day Edition

Have you ever wondered how two people can be so different, yet still be in love? In this podcast episode, I dive into my relationship with my husband, talk about spiritual awakening, living authentically, understanding our love languages, and how we support each other (and what makes us feel loved). We talk about how Type 2 and Type 9 enneagram types exist together in relationship and offer lots of examples of ways that couples can grow together. 22 years of marriage=22 years of experience, advice, and wisdom on life, love, and knowing how to understand each other better!

  

1:31- The Triangle of Relationship- Ram Dass – I quoted this as Triangle of Love but it is termed Triangle of Relationship Enjoy the article here:. https://www.ramdass.org/the-triangle-of-relationships/

 

3:00- How Love Languages create expectations for people and how you can use them to avoid conflict and resentment.

Our personal love language is disproportionately more important to us than it is to the other person.

 

Love Language Test:  https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

 

15:15- Holding Space for yourself within relationship and how to be authentically you.

25:00- The Remarkable Science of Earthing- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=44ddtR0XDVU&vl=en

 

28:04- The ADHD communication style - https://www.bbc.com/news/health-48146166

 

29:00- The Tale of Two Brains- Mark Gungor- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=814eR5K7KD8

 

30:30- Pax Programs- Learn more about your berries here - https://www.alisonarmstrong.com

 

36:56- Advice for spiritual partners- when one partner is not as spiritual as the other…how to handle it.

 

49:30- Enneagram Test-  https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test 

 

40:52- Enneagram Institute how Type 9 & Type 2 are in a relationship- https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/relationship-type-2-with-type-9

 

59:00- What’s the layer beneath anger? https://www.lovehealthrive.com/weeklyloveletter/2020/2/3/whats-the-layer-beneath-your-anger?rq=anger

 

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Podcast edited by Lindsay Curtis