Monday Oct 17, 2022
Healing family patterns of overwhelm anger through inner child meditation
Welcome to our 2nd episode although I must confess this was my very first recording. I now have way better equipment so the recording itself is not the best but this conversation is just too powerful not to share. I hope you’ll appreciate the heart of this episode and forgive the less-than-perfect recording.
This guest heals from being an overworked mom and breaks the cycle of her angry mother mistreating her while learning how to better communicate with her family through the Destiny cards, Enneagram and personal hypnotherapy healing while in meditation. You will be touched and healed from her beautiful story.
3:00- Deciding to break the cycle of the overworked angry mother she experienced as a child. Our guest vows to never become unconscious again. Powerful, emotional, and amazing.
4:55- Acknowledging generational patterns and learning to break the cycle. Before we enter this life, we all have a checklist of things our soul needs to complete.
7:17- Destiny card introduction. The monthly calendar is based on the Destiny card. Every suit has similar characteristics and every card has similar characteristics.
8:00- 8 of hearts is the most popular girl in the room and has an abundant of feelings. Advice always come through stories and parables. Mundane spread found here: www.LoveHealThrive.com/podcast-links
9:38- This is how we operate in the world.
10:20- The energy connection found in the chart is the reason why when you meet someone they feel like they could be your best friend.
11:26- Six of Diamonds- Husband and daughter are both 6 of diamonds. Always ask them “Where is the value in this for you? Why does this matter?” Watch what a difference this will make with this simple communication switch.
13:16- Mars relationships can be passionate. When you’re looking the same direction, you can make miracles happen. Although it is the God of War so there are two sides there. Some people long for that kind of passion but with it can come fighting. Mars can cause competition. My love for you surpasses this Mars energy. Daughter and husband have this past life energy.
15:42- 2 of clubs- Son is two of clubs- ask him “What do you think? “ Intelligent and loves facts. Both are mercury and moon relationship.
16:55- With 8 of hearts, recognizing that you have this abundance of love and when we try to control too much that it comes from this lack of trust that we can be loved in the way we want to loved and if we can let go and recognize they love us and we can allow them in and be vulnerable, we are healed.
18:20- Be careful not to overdump on your moon relationships. Because it is your son, have conscious awareness whether or not you are oversharing on him because he is your moon.
19:00- Guest is coming at him from the heart place and he’s coming from this head space.
19:50- Ask him “What do you think?” Recognize the mercury/moon relationship and be sure not to overshare. I overheart on him all the time! I connect in the way I want to connect, not the way he wants to connect. Can you share a fact of the day? Two of clubs loves to share facts.
21:40- 2’s are built for partnership. 2’s love partnership. He wants logical intellectual partnership.
22:25- 6 of diamonds experience a lot of karma in this lifetime. Plant good seeds because it will come back exponentially. Make sure your daughter learns good financial planning early on.
24:05- 6 equals 2 3s. Either creating a plan or worrying about a plan. When you worry, create.
24:55- Joint partnership work – guest prefers the heart work
27:23: Bumping around in the world. As a heart, you feel your way into the world and with people.
27:48- Be the mana-blog Be the mana blog: https://www.lovehealthrive.com/weeklyloveletter/2019/8/19/how-will-your-mana-change-the-world?rq=mana
29:10- Aura discussion on the guest’s extra large aura. Be sure to ground every morning so that you draw in your aura. Childhood trauma can create larger auras.
30:00- Childhood trauma can cause larger aura. As a child, we throw out our energy field to determine whether or not the room is safe for us. If our childhood is traumatic, we leave our aura out. If we never draw it in, we absorb everyone’s energies.
30:50- Came to US as political refugees, only had my senses because I didn’t speak the language. What does their body language tell me? Always get overwhelmed in a crowd.
32:12- First time to connect the dots on all of this energy sensitivity. Let your little girl be proud of holding this space for family and allowing her to feel safe and hold her little self. Have you and your little self play. Hand your parents a tutor or a book on energy. As we change the timeline, the energy shifts in the present day.
33:52- Sister had selective mutism and was put into the same grade as client so client had to protect her sister too. Guest is hyper- aware of their surroundings. Is it possible to reach a level of trust in the Universe that your soul knew to experience what it needed to do? Gary Zukav , Seat of the Soul
35:45- Allowing the little girl to play and relax. Build a suit around herself. Stand up to the people who wronged her with a superhero or stand in superwoman pose. Allowing little girl to feel strength and empowerment and allowing little girl to release the responsibility of their parents. It’s my job to be a little girl right now. Give your sister a caregiver. As you do this in mediation, it shifts the energetic timeline. You are responding as this responsible and burdened and tough little girl. Acknowledge the amazingness you brought to your family. It’s time to have fun with your own family now but you can only do that once you’ve let that little girl let go. Let it feel easy, joyous, and fun.
39:39- I want you to know you can do this yourself and you can do this in bite-sized meditations every day.
40:39- 7 generations you are changing when you break a cycle. No pressure! It happens in the perfect way in the perfect time. Think of this as bite-sized fun. Give her a break. This is how you are feeling every day right now. “I need a break” There is something more happening here. This burdened little girl makes you feel exhausted everyday.
41:48- Ennegram- Guest is 3x2, Hubby 2x3, daughter 2w3, son is a 4. Hubby and daughter are both 6 of diamonds and 2w3.
41:42:- 2,3,4 are all dealing with value and shame is their collective challenge. Understanding where your value comes from in your life.
2- bring value by being the most loving. Nobody loves people as well as I love people. Gives to get. I’m going to get my value because I love the most.
3- being the most achiever- win the most awards. You quit but not me.. I’m gonna be valuable because I going to work to the bone. Lack in feeling that you have value to begin with. We have inherent value without any achievement. We are born with inherent value. That was their lack of capacity to love you in the way you deserved. Thinking you’re only valuable because you achieve. Creates a mask that I am achiever. Pull the mask off and know I have value beyond the roles I play. I have value because I am Divine.
4- Wants its value by being the most unique- I am the only who paints like this or dresses like this. Creates their attention through their uniqueness.
Feeling ashamed if I’m not unique enough, or achieving enough or giving enough
47:45- as 3w2- achievement and you want to help. As a 2, are you giving to get? We can feel proud but is our value determined by the pride and achievement. As we lean into 4 to create greater balance as we lean on both sides and shows more vulnerability. Natural leaning into the 4 of the son, everyone is special without achieving and the only one in this space.
Hubby is 2w3- his weight is
50:33- Each number has its own sin - 2 is pride- it must look a certain way. As a 3w2- there could be a lot of pride around helping. Help without expecting in return.
51:26- Dark side of 3 is feeling like a loser. Should get another degree, another certification. Love up on that 3 she is whole and complete without the extra degrees.
52:15- 3s are so important. They get the job done! They push us!
52:44- The pace of the 3 is incredible- This is why I’m so exhausted- I lead with my heart, I have this huge aura and I’m always going bananas. I always need to get more done.
53:22- Meditation is so important. You are light and love. You are mana.
54:00- As a 3, enough is enough. I can be whole and I can be complete right here and now. Anything extra is bonus. It doesn’t create more value and it doesn’t take away value from you.
54:45- Only give from overflow.
55:05- Sin of 3 is deceit- shows up as the false mask- thinking I’m fooling people because I don’t have all these degrees. Enough is enough.
55:55- All struggle with “Where’s my family come from? I am valuable because I am here- family practice. I don’t have to be or do to be valuable. When we settle in and get center, we accomplish all these things from a different place. All of these accomplishments will happen even easier rather than forcing them to happen. When we allow balance, we attract all the things that bless us.
57:30- We attract all the things that bless us rather than forcing them to happen. Comes from a place of magnetizing rather than forcing and you won’t be so tired.
58:14- Your son, 4, does not have to be the most unique to be loved. His sin is envy and to realize the grass is not greener. Family gratitude practice.
59:38- Son- What do you think your gratitude is from today? Daughter- What valuable things happened to you? What mattered to you today? Language matters. You’re speaking to their soul.
60:00- Guest is a heart- feeling your way through the world- How do you feel?
Husband and daughter- Where is the matter and value in this to you?
Son- What do you think?
61 :03- Love was not modeled to guest’s dad so could not love her in the way she wanted. Forgiveness changes your heart.
69:00- Our children entrain to the mother. Follow along like little duckies.
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